It was the great thinker Ralph Waldo Emerson who proclaimed the words, ‘love and you shall be loved’. When it comes to the law of attraction and love, this is one of the key philosophies at the heart of its teachings.
As most of us are already aware, love is one of humanity’s biggest preoccupations. The very driving force behind our existence and the power source of all manifestation, our love for things is behind every dream, every ambition and every action we ever choose to make. We will find love to be present in every aspect of our lives, regardless of whether we choose to acknowledge it or not, and it is because of this that love should never be underestimated in its importance to our overall happiness and wellbeing. All joy stems from some form of love – so without it, where would we be?
It doesn’t matter if you are looking to find your life’s one great love, maintain the love within a current relationship or simply enjoy feeling loved within a network of loving family and friends – it is not uncommon for many people to become bogged down with negative feelings surrounding the subject of love (or lack of love) in their lives. Unfortunately, it is these fears and preoccupations with ‘doomed’ love that are held onto by so many which prevents them from forming the kind of loving relationships that they so desperately long for.
The Law Of Attraction And Love Can Offer You The Secret To A Long And Fulfilling Relationship
Have you been standing in the way between yourself and your chances of true love and eternal happiness? Once we have opened our minds up to the teachings of the law of attraction and the large part that it has to play in our lives, it can become easier to identify the various ways in which we may have been unknowingly closing ourselves off to any opportunities of finding the love that we crave.
We already know that the law of attraction makes it possible to bring to life what our heart desires the most, whether it is money, success, happiness or love; by embracing the law and replacing all negative emotions with positive mind-affirmations of what we want most, the universe will grant it to us. However, there are several common traps that people fall into when they are trying to apply the rules of attraction to their love lives.
One of the most common mistakes that those who are unlucky in love tend to make is that they view themselves in a bad light. Whether it is your appearance, your inability to find a life partner or your history of unsuccessful relationships – by having no love for yourself you are inadvertently blocking the way for others to express their love. By choosing to stay in an endless cycle of negativity and by dwelling on what isn’t, rather than what could be, how is the universe expected to be clear on what you are looking for? Focusing on the bad luck that you may have had in past relationships or dwelling on your inadequacies will only serve to further increase these misfortunes and hold you back from the love that you so truly deserve.
Would You Like To Know How To Use The Law Of Attraction For Love?
Once you have woken up to the infinite possibilities of the law of attraction and applied them to your love life, your lack-lustre love life could take a miraculous turn for the better. The first thing to do when you feel that there is room for more love in your life, is to fill your thoughts and actions with nothing but absolute love. By flooding your mind with feelings of positivity and love for yourself and those around you, your ability to love and be loved back will shine through to others.
Gratitude is another crucial aspect within the law of attraction, which can be key in helping to unlock the abundance of love that is waiting to bring glorious colour into your world. Being grateful for all of the love that you are already blessed with in life, no matter how little this may be, is a sure way of encouraging a greater abundance of love into your life. So, why not try and fill yourself with never-ending gratitude for all of the love in your life? Love from the universe, the love you have for yourself, love for a partner, love for the things you enjoy, love for others; being thankful for so much love will only result in one thing– love, love and lots more love!
In comparison to those who are looking for love, people who are already in a long-term relationship should also try and take the time to gain a fuller understanding of the law of attraction and how it can help them to sustain a long-lasting and loving relationship. Again, gratitude can be vital in helping to achieve this. Instead of focusing on the things that aggravate or upset us about our partners (as can happen in any relationship), choosing to concentrate on everything that you are thankful for in your significant other can be a simple but fantastic way in which to help keep the fire of your romance alive. Are you thankful for their support? Their great sense of humour? Their conversation? Clear your mind of any negative emotions and focus solely on all that you are grateful for in your relationship – the love you receive back will be sure to be repaid twice-fold.
With the liberating knowledge that you have the power to control every area of your life, love, like every other part of your life can be completely turned around for the better. Instead of gazing enviously at the happiness of the loved-up couples around you, decide to take charge of your life and seize for yourself the true love and joy that is rightfully yours. Remember to keep your mind and your heart open to the surrounding universe and all of the love in the world can be yours to treasure.
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